In celebration of Lesbian Visibility Day, here are three real life lesbian adults who are out, proud, and living their best lives.
ANNA
I’ve spent most of my 20s in a PhD program studying biochemical and physical features of some interesting proteins. While grad school definitely has its challenges, I’ve been granted a lot of independence and space to grow and lean into what feels natural—both in and out of the lab.
The pillars of my life right now are photography, blacksmithing, choral music, and my thesis project, which is centered on electron microscopy and structural biology (fairly visual disciplines). They all reinforce each other in tangible and intangible ways—like I used money I made from photography to pay for a few vocal lessons to help with choir, I get ideas about things to make at the forge from work and from being around musicians, and I’ve photographed people and places from all my other activities. It’s important to me that I get to be creative and make things that I think are satisfying and effective. I love being around and collaborating with other lesbians, and I hope I get to do more of that in the future.
IG: akw.96.photos
KASEJA
Being a lesbian is one of the deepest joys of my life!
I came out in 1982, in liberal Eugene, Oregon and was lucky to be a part of the women’s studies program and meet many like-minded women. Recently, the University of Oregon conducted an oral history project, which turned into an exhibit, and then a documentary. It was called Outliers and Outlaws and it was about how lesbians came to Eugene from the late 60s to the early 90s and created community in the form of collectives (restaurants, women’s book stores, a martial art studio e.t.c) and changed the face of the city. I am so honored to be a member of this community and a part of the project! Being a narrator and a docent for the exhibit has re-ignited my love of being a lesbian.
I went back to school late in life (almost 50) to get my master’s degree in social work, and now I am a psychotherapist offering trauma informed therapy with a mindful, somatic approach. Most of my clients are women, and I delight in helping them come to a feminist understanding of themselves and the women around them. My many years of exploring and knowing who I am helps me in my work: modeling appropriate ambition, distress tolerance, and a fierce commitment to authenticity. I now live in a collective with 3 other women and our motto is “We create a home that fosters community.” It’s a good, good life!
JESSICA
I have worked in the entertainment and production industry for over a decade, building an impressive resume across some of the most iconic events in television and music history. From the GRAMMYs and BET Awards to the Emmys, Golden Globes, and major productions like Friends: The Reunion, I have made my mark as a trusted talent escort on high-profile logistics teams. As a talent escort, I am responsible for the movements of an assigned talent on a show from the time they arrive at an event to the time they leave. That means, I am guiding them to rehearsals, on the red carpet, to their seats in the venue, to their dressing rooms, hair and make up e.t.c, all while coordinating with stage management and their own management teams. What I most love about what I do is getting to meet all kinds of celebrities and the teams that manage them while striving to create the best experience possible.
I am especially passionate about working with lesbian and queer talent, and I have had the privilege of working alongside some of my favorite artists and LGBT icons such as Doechii, Brandi Carlile, Jodie Foster, and Niecy Nash, as well as some of my favorite allies like P!nk and Kelly Clarkson. I have had some unforgettable moments in this line of work, including supporting Chappell Roan during her first GRAMMY win and performance.
Beyond the red carpet, I am a DJ (Hypeomania) and an event producer (Homology LA) who is dedicated to creating vibrant, safe, and inclusive spaces for the LGBTQ+ community in Los Angeles. I also serve on the production team for The Dinah Shore Weekend in Palm Springs. Right now, I am in the process of launching my latest community driven project: Lez Brunch! –A monthly brunch event built for lesbian and queer women. Lez Brunch! will blend music, mimosas, and community with a mission-driven twist—donating a portion of proceeds to nonprofits and mutual aid funds. The event debuts at Sorry Not Sorry in LA on May 17, 2025.
When I am not behind the scenes or behind the decks, I love yoga, hiking, camping, traveling, and biking along the beach. One of my personal goals is to hike to the summit of Mt. Whitney this year. Wish me luck!
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