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Author Ashley Obinwanne

Ashley Obinwanne is the founder and editor-in-chief of Lesbians Over Everything.

All Homo: How Straight Women Delegitimize Lesbian Relationships

We’re all familiar with one of the ways in which straight men casually express their homophobia. It’s the thing where they distance themselves from any action or activity that might be interpreted as gay. They won’t hold hands with their male… Continue Reading →

Breakups and How to Survive Them

How do you go from wanting to talk to someone every day to being okay with barely speaking? How do you become able to think of them without your heart aching? When will you be able to go about your… Continue Reading →

Aaah Real Lesbians: Be Steadwell

Be Steadwell (B. Steady) is a musician who writes songs that most people can relate to. She delivers these songs to us with her breathtaking voice. Whether she’s playing at a coffee shop or at a music festival, Be always finds… Continue Reading →

Out on the Town: Blu Elefant Cafe

I arrived at Blu Elefant Cafe in Los Angeles on a Monday night. It is located on Washington Boulevard, and it is a cool, artist-friendly space that has walls that are covered with paintings, old records, inspirational quotes, and guitars. Their… Continue Reading →

Out on the Town: Women Fuck Shit Up Fest

Description: Local lesbian goes out and sees what her city has to offer. Local lesbian writes about it.   According to the description on their page, “Women Fuck Shit Up Fest  is a do-it-yourself, all-inclusive festival that seeks to create a safe community for art… Continue Reading →

Straight Dudes Just Don’t Get It

I met this guy named Kevin when I was in college. He wasn’t terrible to be around, but the fact that he always had weed that he was willing to share was what really sold me on the friendship. The… Continue Reading →

Let it be Known: A Coming Out Story

*Names have been changed The first real crush I had was on a girl named Jade. Before that, I’d had “strong feelings of attachment” towards my nanny without knowing what those feelings were. All I remember is that I liked… Continue Reading →

Aaah Real Lesbians: Dana Rudie

Dana Rudie describes herself as a handbag designer, an artist, and a D.I.Y.er. She designs Eco-friendly and cruelty-free handbags, manages the art studios at The Little Tokyo Art Complex in Los Angeles, and somehow still finds the time to create art of… Continue Reading →

Aaah Real Lesbians: Dior Williams

You might already know her as Natalie on the web series Lavender Collective, but she is also a talented singer and songwriter. Dior Williams is a rising star that you need to familiarize yourself with. I had the pleasure of sitting down with… Continue Reading →

Out On the Town: Echo Park

Description: Local lesbian goes out and sees what her city has to offer. Local lesbian writes about it.   Echo Park is a neighborhood in Los Angeles, California. I had a first date there in November of 2015. I met… Continue Reading →

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